So, you want to know who I am ? :)
- Nov 3, 2016
- 3 min read
Ah ! I see you have got this question after our first walk. :) I am sorry I didnt introduce myself.
Hi :) I am MadlyYours. I like to keep this as my pen name for this lovely place where I get to interact with you guys and girls. I am a girl of Indian origin living in Europe. I am still in my early 20's and like the majority of Indian girls out there, I am living with my parents. *sigh* .. Yeah ! I do want to experience living by myself. I guess, its pretty hard to reason with my conservative parents that I want to live by myself before I get married. Oh Yeah.. did I not mention, that's the next step for me in life according to them and the whole bandwagon of relatives.
Even after living outside of a conservative society, they still have the same old thoughts. So, a lot of the times I do feel like my wings have been tied back. Having said all that, I do love my family to the core. They might not get me all the time, but, family is family. I am where I am because my parents worked hard for it.
I picked a job area which was not my dream, because of my parents wishes and their financial state. Got through college and finally started working. I m happy because I got into a workplace with a good atmosphere and very understanding bosses. I do sometimes think, why couldn't I do what I wanted to do. But, sometimes life can be tough like that. They say you could always make a change in your life whenever you feel like it. And maybe when I really feel like a change, I will.
Why did I start writing as MadlyYours ? Its because, sometimes feelings and thoughts are expressed better through the pen, well.. in this case, the keyboard. :D I might have sounded a bit sad there, but I always try to keep my focus on the good things that happen to me. I remind myself to be grateful for them. There are moments and days where I feel like crap, like almost all of us. But, I still give myself a lot of chances to feel better. I have the habit of overthinking sometimes and that stresses me out. But, I am training myself to focus on, What can I do now rather than what could have happened or what could have been done. Life can tough. But, so are we. Never ever give up. There might be someone who might be having a tougher day than ourselves.
Having said all that, let me talk about the things I love. :) I love watching movies, especially Indian ones, which includes, Hindi, Tamil, Telugu and Malayalam mainly. I watch Hollywood movies too. I love the Marvel series and some ROM-coms. Sometimes I watch really old movies just for the love of it. There's something about the old world. That charm that we do not get to see in the modern day cinema. I like to dance, but I am not very good at it. I can pass as a good dance floor dancer, if you know what I mean. I can sing. That's something I am damn sure of. :) I like going back to India once in a while, visiting family and places where I grew up at. I love the monsoon. The monsoon mangoes. I love eating raw peeled mangoes with salt and chilli powder, especially during monsoon ( *drooling*). Then, coming back to where I live, the weather is pretty cold, so thats not a wow factor. The best thing about the country where I live is that the Christmas celebrations are the best. The whole month before Christmas and coming upto the day, the streets are decorated with lovely lights. Its just beautiful. The festive feel is incredible. Just fills you in with happiness.
So, there you go. :) I have shared quite a lot about me to you my favourite people.
Hope you didnt get bored with all that. :) I'd love your feedback, as I have just started. Please do write to me. Thank you !
MadlyYours.


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